Today’s discourse will help couples who are either having a bad sex life or are drifting apart.
A good sex life takes deliberate effort from both parties as it is easy to lose the spark if you don’t pay attention to it.
PAY ATTENTION TO THE FOLLOWING KEYS:
1. BUILD INTIMACY
Intimacy will breed attraction. You can have sex and still drift apart; while intimacy will make sex more enjoyable. Intimacy knits a couple together.
2. BE GENEROUS WITH COMPLIMENTS
Always give compliments to your partner. It builds self esteem and closeness between the both of you.
Be vocal and appreciative about even the most minute things.
3. CREATE QUALITY TIME FOR YOUR PARTNER
Spend time with each other alone without distractions. Have fun, crack jokes and flirt with each other.
4. COMMUNICATE
Learn to talk and express your feelings and emotions with each other.
Don’t assume your partner is a mind reader. Be more expressive.
5. EROTIC TALK
Don’t shy away from using erotic words with your partner.
Be flirty and vocal about your sexual fantasies and feelings.
6. REDUCE FRICTION
Be more forgiving and willing to compromise for your partner. This will reduce the time spent arguing and creating tension.
7. BE MORE CREATIVE
While having sex with your partner be creative and willing to try new things.
As long as it doesn’t violate your conscience and is medically safe, learn to enjoy sex with your partner.
8. BE ATTRACTIVE
Endeavour to always look good for your partner.
Do not be too familiar with your partner and forget to dress and smell good for him/her.
My goal is to help you achieve marital success & sexual fulfilment in marriage.
Blessings Always!
FEMI OLAITAN
Lead Pastor
ROYAL INHERITANCE CHURCH,
10, Itire road, ishaga b/stop, surulere, lagos, Nigeria.
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